Swinger#
Noun
/swɪŋ.ər/
- A "swinger" refers to an individual, or more commonly one member of a couple, who engages in consensual non-monogamous sexual activities with other individuals or couples. This practice, known as swinging or "the lifestyle," or "swing lifestyle", is characterized by recreational sex that occurs in a social context, often at private parties or clubs. The primary distinction from other forms of non-monogamy is that swinging is typically a shared activity undertaken by a couple as a team for mutual pleasure and enhancement of their relationship. This lifestyle is a form of non-monogamy where couples share sexual partners with others, though it can vary from social interaction to sexual activity.
- (In a broader context) A person who participates in partner swapping or group sex with the full knowledge and consent of their primary partner.
Etymology: The term gained popularity in the mid-20th century, deriving from the concept of "swapping" or exchanging partners.
Sexual practice
- Partner swapping: Swingers exchange sexual partners with other couples or individuals.
- Social and sexual activities: The lifestyle can range from sharing stories with other couples to full sexual "play," often at specific events or parties.
- Communication is key: Successful swinging relationships often rely on open communication, trust, and both partners being on the same page about their goals and boundaries.
Related Terms:
- Swinging (n.): The act or practice of being a swinger.
- The Lifestyle (n.): A common colloquialism for the swinging community and its associated activities.
- Soft Swap (n.): A type of swinging that involves sexual activity short of full intercourse (e.g., oral sex, heavy petting) with others.
- Full Swap (n.): A type of swinging that includes penetrative intercourse with others.
Key Characteristics:
- Consent: All activities are based on enthusiastic and informed consent from everyone involved.
- Couple-Centric: While single individuals ("unicorns") can participate, the culture is largely built around established couples exploring together.
- Recreational Focus: The primary motivation is often sexual variety and fun, rather than seeking multiple deep emotional relationships (polyamory).